Just a hand... Or more than that ?

Yes, I am just 24 yrs old but have seen a lot of things. And when I say a lot, I mean it. In my experience there's no situation in this world which you can't overcome. All you need is someone to believe in you when no one else do. At some point in your life when a thousand fingers are pointed towards you with hundreds of eyes looking at your failures and faults, you only need a hand to bring you back on your feet. A familiar face with hope in his or her eyes can give you strength which you never felt in youself before. Can be your lover or your parent or a sibling of yours or just a friend.

I think in my case it was a friend of mine. I don't have "Best" friend concept. I guess you never know how much these stupid friends love you. So, you don;t have right to distinguish them either. Some say. Some show. Some are just there for you. After all these years according to me the most helpless and hopeless situation you can 

be in will be when you see someone suffering and you are not able to help him or her. And when i say someone it can be you, yourself too.

The thing is you can't express or share 100% to anyone. Sometimes not even youself and in the end you are all confused. Thats when you ask for a opinion, right? There are things on which people have a opinion but sometimes they don;t. What they can offer is some empty condolences and a meaningless line "Everything will be fine, you should feel happy that 'this or that happened'..."

Ok I am happy thinking about all the good things happened to me and yes I am gratefull for that. But whenever I think about this or that' what comes in my mind after sometime is -- What happened in the end my friend ? Do you have any explanation for that? They say its all about the journey not the destination, but what always left in your mind is the freaking destination. All the philosophy people blabber around looks like shit at that point of time.

Sometime back i was in a little conversation with a friend of mine and I realised you have to live thourgh all of this. willingly or unwillingly. Nothing happens for a reason. It just happens and you just have to live with it. What can really keep you on your feet through all this is a shoulder to rest on and a single "hand" to pull you out of it. So, condemn none: if you can stretch out a helping hand, do so. If you cannot, fold your hands, bless your brothers, and let them go their own way.